Looking good as a form of respect for others

The roles of males and females have changed over time.

The traditional role which suggest that women should bedomesticated,  gentle & nurturing no longer stand firm.

Males are also becoming more metrosexual possibly due to media portrayal from Korean dramas depicting lean pretty boys, male models getting more and more scrawny, & perhaps increased emphasis from skin, tees and spa brands targeting the men’s market. Of course there are many more deeper issues involved.  

As we are faced with the many more challenges and clutter in life. The roles played by men and women have inevitably crossed and somewhat blurred. 

As a modern metrosexual man living in today’s multi-faceted and dimensional world, it is imperative that we stay true to ourselves. Beauty comes from within and it is important we embrace the many challenges and obstacles we face in life.

In an effort to coin the definition of a true urban male, i have derived ten own definitions ;

1) An urban homme male  has a positive attitude.

2) An urban homme male knows looking good is a form of respect to people around him.

3) An urban homme male is sensitive to world issues.

4) An urban homme male knows how to love and be loved.

5) An urban homme male maintains a good sports regime.

6) An urban homme male loves how to party and have fun when required.

7) An urban homme male takes on a balanced and healthy diet.

8) An urban homme male mentors and empower others.

9) An urban homme male is well travelled.

10) An urban homme male has a good sense of humor and not afraid to put down himself.

Such desirable traits need to be learnt and cultivated over time. The above are just my thoughts about what define a true urban male in today’s world. I am learning to be one. and i am sure you are as well. Good luck and God bless.

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